I have a deep interest in working with couples. I work with dynamics
between partners, helping them to explore their attachment and connection.
‘Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the
barriers within yourself that you have built against it’ Rumi
My work is informed by a psychoanalytic understanding of
relationships but I also draw heavily from emotionally focused
therapy to create a safe and authentic experience. The aim is
to help each partner access their own emotional experience and
at the same time develop empathy and compassion for their
To this end, my sessions are a combination of using the ‘here
and now’ in the session and looking back to understand how
emotional patterns developed and how they impact on one’s
current relationship. They are pragmatic and instructive in
terms of how to moderate responses and improve communication.